The child may be in harmony with them, unless he took his parents. It took. This means to take their parents such as it is, to respect them as they are, not wanting and not presenting themselves for anything else. They are the best, that are what they are. Who could take their parents, who in harmony with himself, he feels whole, live in it both his parents with all their force. Some people think that by adopting parents, they will take their bad traits. This I have never seen. Who has taken the parents has the fullness of their strength; what used to be frightened him in the fate of their parents (eg, mother's illness), it does not matter anymore. It seems not. Parents can not choose what to give the children; Children can not choose what to take from their parents. Children can neither subtract nor add to the fact that they receive from their parents, because children have are their parents. Those who recognize this, one in harmony with something great.